At the time I attended this place, I had not come to the place where I had put my trust in Jesus Christ as my Savior yet, and, naturally, I followed the crowd. But, God was dealing heavily with my heart, in spite of my rebellion.
In October of 1971, I was getting to know a young man who was in the band that played at the Youth Center, but I was not allowed to date him. He introduced me to the man I was going to marry one day. I wasn't paying attention though, for I was trying to get another old boyfriend back who was sitting just a few feet away.
On October 23rd, I was at the Youth Center again. I had a baby sitting job that either got cancelled or I changed my mind about doing. My mom prayed that I would meet a nice boy that night. Little did she know how God was orchestrating everything that evening.
He was sitting at a big round, high table, when I had an impression to meet him. I wasn't really shy when it came to meeting guys, but this seemed a little awkward. I went past him a couple of times. He came over and met me, and we talked for a couple of minutes. Then it was time to go, and I gave him my phone number (back then, it was against the rules for a girl to give a guy her phone number. I didn't know the rules).
To better appreciate this, you have to understand that God was working heavily on my heart. I thought it was just my imagination, but couldn't get away from this awareness. So, this new 'boyfriend' calls and sets up a date. I said 'yes'. But before we went out on this date, he wanted to take me somewhere else. He wouldn't tell me where he wanted to take me, but he said I would like it. It had music. But what if it had to do with something religious? I didn't know if I could handle that back then.
When we got there, it was a 'Young Life' meeting. Since it had religious overtones, I chose to clog my ears. Needless to say, this was just the beginning of many events that were to come.
We dated for three and a half years, and then married. Sometime during that time period, I came to know Christ. My whole life was changed and at the age of eighteen, I was a married woman.
Marriage wasn't easy though, and it didn't help that when we married I was eighteen and my husband was nineteen. But somehow, I knew that God was going to work through all the difficulties that lay before us in the coming years.
When I was a brand new believer in Christ, there was a church in town where God seemed to be moving. There was nothing more that I would have desired, than to be there, but it was impossible for us to be involved there for a number of reasons. But, in God's mysterious ways, we ended up at the particular church. It was there that our marriage was touched and we were changed forever. The pastor over the young couples taught us about marriage principles. He became our friend, and when it was time for him to pastor his own flock, we joined him.
Things were a lot different when we met at ages 15 and 16, but in each step of the way, we could see God's sovereignty in each one. We didn't live happily ever after, but we are happy. God's grace has helped/sustained us in very difficult times. God's blessings were evident in the good times. God has used our marriage to change both of us, so we could become more like the image of Christ, and we were able to draw closer to Him.
I always wondered what life would look like when I was older. Now I can see that God isn't just sitting back watching how life is going to pan out for us, with the choices we make. He has been with us and will continue to be with us.
We don't know how many more years we will have, but we will have however many God chooses to give us. And we will be grateful for each one.
I am grateful for October 23rd, 1971, March 17, 1975, and today. I am a most blessed person.
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